HERE'S HOPE!

We have been taking a bunch of photos but will have to
upload them once we get home!

Hope has been VERY quiet. Babelfish has proved itself
wonderfully useful (we didn't purchase a translator) and we can communicate
that way. Hope had her first experience of "surfing the web"
yesterday and her first airplane ride today. I have been very "hands
on" with the hugs, stroking of her hair, holding her arm, etc. I can feel
that it isn't normal for her, but she hasn't pulled away either. 

Due to our very quick stay in Kunming we didn't get a chance to sightsee or
to try and visit her foster family, but we did call her foster family so she
could talk to them (and so we could get their phone number.) Hope is never very
talkative, even with people that are speaking Mandarin to her, so I think she
is just painfully shy. 

Hope came to us with the stuffed animal we sent (but not the
photo album), some school books and a blanket-like coat in a backpack. She wore
new jeans, shoes, sweater and coat. She also wore two layers of long-underwear,
which I highly suspect are new but have been worn for a few too many days. I
offered some new clothes that we brought from home, but she does NOT want them.
I am going to take her out to have her involved in the process of buying at
least a change of clothing, and then insist that she showers or bathes before
changing. She wears her coat even indoors, and although she denies being hot,
her "ripeness" indicates otherwise. David may be flying to Shanghai to do some
business, so it may be easier for "just the girls" to take a dip in
the bathtub together. :)

Hope has been wonderful in trying to "be a good
girl", as our guide told us she was instructed to do. She was told that if
she didn't listen to her new mama and baba we might not want her. I think that
is playing into her quietness, and although it is nice to have a perfectly
behaved child, I am eager to get to know the real girl underneath.

I must share one more thing! I don't know if any other
adoptive moms, especially of older children, have questioned if they were doing
the right thing taking their child out of a foster family and out of their
culture. I was hitting incredible highs and lows the day before we got Hope!
However, after seeing her swollen, red, ulcerated hands (probably due to
washing clothes outside) and noticing how she responds when I brush her hair or
tuck her into bed or tickle her feet, I really think that there will be many
more "foreign" things for her to experience in America than just the
culture. I consider it my true privilege to introduce her to our forever family
and all the "perks" that it entails!

Next will be Min Zhi! Only 2 hours to go!!!

All my best,
Amy, currently in Nanning,
 China